Your Child's First Pet

"PLEEEEEEEESEE...I'll take care of it all by myself, I PROMISE!!" How many times have we heard these words from the mouths of our dear, sweet children, ready to promise us the world in exchange for the furry face in the pet shop window? Being the owner of forty some pets, I guess you could say I've been there, but being the owner of a pet shop has given me a new perspective on pet ownership for children. I, therefore, would like to pass along a few words of advice for those of you about to give in to those big pleading eyes! The best advice I can give you is to lower your expectations. Although a child may promise to take full responsibility for the new pet, this is not likely to happen unless your child is perfect, never has homework, and doesn't spend the night out.

As a parent, you must be willing to take over as caregiver at any time during the life of the animal. He or she should be thought of as a member of the family from the start to avoid problems later on. You may even want to limit your child's choices of pets to varieties you find attractive.

Case in point; do you really want to feed that mouse to that snake while Jr. is at camp? Food for thought! A second word of advice is to consider your child's age and temperament when selecting a pet. A rough and tumble 12 year old begging for a puppy will be disappointed with a nervous teacup poodle, but may be a perfect match for a high energy Jack Russell. A baby bird or hamster may end up flattened by an over zealous toddler, but could be a great choice for a quiet, patient 8 year old. You know your child best and can help steer him or her in an appropriate direction.

My last word of advice is to help keep your youngster interested in the new pet. Participate in pet walks, attend pet shows, or sign up for obedience classes. The more involved your child is, the less likely he or she will lose interest in caring for their new friend. Perhaps the best way to keep them involved is to sign up with your local 4-H club. Any pet from mouse to horse may be used as a project animal and the 4-H program will teach your child to be even more responsible for the pet. Well, good luck with both your children and their pets. With careful planning and a little luck hopefully you will find the perfect match. I wish you filled food bowls and clean cages happily ever after.

Presented by Dawn C. Kelley from Paws N Claws Pet Shop at 941-412-0295.